GDBusWorker: distinguish between 3 sorts of output that might be pending

GDBusWorker: distinguish between 3 sorts of output that might be pending

If the user calls flush_sync() with no messages in the queue, but an
async write call pending, then we ought to flush after that async write
returns (although we don't currently do that). If it was an async close
or flush that was pending, there's no need to flush (again) afterwards.
So, we need to distinguish.

Bug: https://bugzilla.gnome.org/show_bug.cgi?id=662395
Signed-off-by: Simon McVittie <simon.mcvittie@collabora.co.uk>
Reviewed-by: Cosimo Alfarano <cosimo.alfarano@collabora.co.uk>