bitbake: knotty: Ensure commandline parameters are updated in memres server

bitbake: knotty: Ensure commandline parameters are updated in memres server

When using options like -k, -f, -v and so on with the memory resident
server, they'd currently only be set on the initial values passed to
the original command. This ensures they now match those specified
on the commandline for the options where this makes sense.

To make this work, a command to update the options on the server side
is required so this is added.

[YOCTO #5292]

(Bitbake rev: 1c75cc4d0c8b606c1fe76e6bf60bf6a32298b105)

Signed-off-by: Richard Purdie <richard.purdie@linuxfoundation.org>