bpf: bpf_task_storage_delete_recur does lookup first before the deadlock check

bpf: bpf_task_storage_delete_recur does lookup first before the deadlock check

Similar to the earlier change in bpf_task_storage_get_recur.
This patch changes bpf_task_storage_delete_recur such that it
does the lookup first.  It only returns -EBUSY if it needs to
take the spinlock to do the deletion when potential deadlock
is detected.

Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <martin.lau@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221025184524.3526117-7-martin.lau@linux.dev
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>