bpf: Ensure kptr_struct_meta is non-NULL for collection insert and refcount_acquire

bpf: Ensure kptr_struct_meta is non-NULL for collection insert and refcount_acquire

It's straightforward to prove that kptr_struct_meta must be non-NULL for
any valid call to these kfuncs:

  * btf_parse_struct_metas in btf.c creates a btf_struct_meta for any
    struct in user BTF with a special field (e.g. bpf_refcount,
    {rb,list}_node). These are stored in that BTF's struct_meta_tab.

  * __process_kf_arg_ptr_to_graph_node in verifier.c ensures that nodes
    have {rb,list}_node field and that it's at the correct offset.
    Similarly, check_kfunc_args ensures bpf_refcount field existence for
    node param to bpf_refcount_acquire.

  * So a btf_struct_meta must have been created for the struct type of
    node param to these kfuncs

  * That BTF and its struct_meta_tab are guaranteed to still be around.
    Any arbitrary {rb,list} node the BPF program interacts with either:
    came from bpf_obj_new or a collection removal kfunc in the same
    program, in which case the BTF is associated with the program and
    still around; or came from bpf_kptr_xchg, in which case the BTF was
    associated with the map and is still around

Instead of silently continuing with NULL struct_meta, which caused
confusing bugs such as those addressed by commit 2140a6e3422d ("bpf: Set
kptr_struct_meta for node param to list and rbtree insert funcs"), let's
error out. Then, at runtime, we can confidently say that the
implementations of these kfuncs were given a non-NULL kptr_struct_meta,
meaning that special-field-specific functionality like
bpf_obj_free_fields and the bpf_obj_drop change introduced later in this
series are guaranteed to execute.

This patch doesn't change functionality, just makes it easier to reason
about existing functionality.

Signed-off-by: Dave Marchevsky <davemarchevsky@fb.com>
Acked-by: Yonghong Song <yonghong.song@linux.dev>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230821193311.3290257-2-davemarchevsky@fb.com
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>