Forbid inplace modification of a saved tensor's pack_hook input (#62717)

Forbid inplace modification of a saved tensor's pack_hook input (#62717)

Summary:
When using saved tensors hooks (especially default hooks),
if the user defines a `pack_hook` that modifies its input,
it can cause some surprising behavior.

The goal of this PR is to prevent future user headache by catching
inplace modifications of the input of `pack_hook` and raising an error if
applicable.

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/62717

Reviewed By: albanD

Differential Revision: D30255243

Pulled By: Varal7

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