Rename `btriunpack` to `lu_unpack` (#18529)

Rename `btriunpack` to `lu_unpack` (#18529)

Summary:
Changelog:
- Renames `btriunpack` to `lu_unpack` to remain consistent with the `lu` function interface.
- Rename all relevant tests, fix callsites
- Create a tentative alias for `lu_unpack` under the name `btriunpack` and add a deprecation warning to not promote usage.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/18529

Differential Revision: D14683161

Pulled By: soumith

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