[Matrix] Factor and distribute transposes across multiplies

[Matrix] Factor and distribute transposes across multiplies

Now that we can fold some transposes into multiplies (CM: A * B^t and RM:
A^t * B), we want to move them around to create the optimal expressions:

* fold away double transposes while still using them to assert the shape
* sink transposes hoping they cancel out
* lift transposes when both operands are transposed

This also modifies the matrix remarks to include the number of exposed
transposes (i.e. transposes that we couldn't fold into a multiply).

The adjustment to the test remarks-inlining is a bit subtle: I am changing the
double transpose to a single transpose so that we don't remove it completely.
More importantly this changes some of the total instruction count, most
notable stores because we can no longer use a vector store.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D102733