vhost-user: add protocol feature negotiation

vhost-user: add protocol feature negotiation

Support a separate bitmask for vhost-user protocol features,
and messages to get/set protocol features.

Invoke them at init.

No features are defined yet.

[ leverage vhost_user_call for request handling -- Yuanhan Liu ]

Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <address@hidden>
Signed-off-by: Yuanhan Liu <yuanhan.liu@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Yuanhan Liu <yuanhan.liu@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Marcel Apfelbaum <marcel@redhat.com>
Tested-by: Marcel Apfelbaum <marcel@redhat.com>