Add rule based filtering for ONNXIFI transformation (#17198)

Add rule based filtering for ONNXIFI transformation (#17198)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/17198

We come to the point that we need to apply some rules to bind certain ops together to avoid un-inferrable intermediate shapes. We either lower them together to backend or neither. This diff adds a pass for us to add rules like this. The first one is to bind `Gather` with `SparseLengthsWeighted*`.

Reviewed By: ipiszy

Differential Revision: D14118326

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