tls: use tls_cipher_desc to get per-cipher sizes in tls_set_sw_offload

tls: use tls_cipher_desc to get per-cipher sizes in tls_set_sw_offload

We can get rid of some local variables, but we have to keep nonce_size
because tls1.3 uses nonce_size = 0 for all ciphers.

We can also drop the runtime sanity checks on iv/rec_seq/tag size,
since we have compile time checks on those values.

Signed-off-by: Sabrina Dubroca <sd@queasysnail.net>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/deed9c4430a62c31751a72b8c03ad66ffe710717.1692977948.git.sd@queasysnail.net
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>