tcp_metrics: annotate data-races around tm->tcpm_net

tcp_metrics: annotate data-races around tm->tcpm_net

tm->tcpm_net can be read or written locklessly.

Instead of changing write_pnet() and read_pnet() and potentially
hurt performance, add the needed READ_ONCE()/WRITE_ONCE()
in tm_net() and tcpm_new().

Fixes: 849e8a0ca8d5 ("tcp_metrics: Add a field tcpm_net and verify it matches on lookup")
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: David Ahern <dsahern@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@amazon.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230802131500.1478140-6-edumazet@google.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>