RDMA/irdma: Add support for dmabuf pin memory regions

RDMA/irdma: Add support for dmabuf pin memory regions

This is a followup to the EFA dmabuf[1]. Irdma driver currently does
not support on-demand-paging(ODP). So it uses habanalabs as the
dmabuf exporter, and irdma as the importer to allow for peer2peer
access through libibverbs.

In this commit, the function ib_umem_dmabuf_get_pinned() is used.
This function is introduced in EFA dmabuf[1] which allows the driver
to get a dmabuf umem which is pinned and does not require move_notify
callback implementation. The returned umem is pinned and DMA mapped
like standard cpu umems, and is released through ib_umem_release().

[1]https://lore.kernel.org/lkml/20211007114018.GD2688930@ziepe.ca/t/

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230217011425.498847-1-yanjun.zhu@intel.com
Reviewed-by: Shiraz Saleem <shiraz.saleem@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Zhu Yanjun <yanjun.zhu@linux.dev>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>