[Java][FlexBuffers] Abstract buffer access from ByteBuffer (#5743)

[Java][FlexBuffers] Abstract buffer access from ByteBuffer (#5743)

To read and build flexbuffers on Java, one needs to wrap the data
using  ByteBuffer. But for the common case of having ByteBuffers
backed by arrays, accessing from a ByteBuffer might be inefficient.

So this change introduces two interfaces: ReadBuf and ReadWriteBuf.
It allows one to read and writes data directly on an array. It also allow
 other buffer implementations to be used with flexbuffers.

Another change is that FlexBuffersBuilder backed by array allows
the buffer to grow with the increase of the message size. Something
that could not be done with ByteBuffer.