If the C library provides malloc_size(), we can use that in the same

If the C library provides malloc_size(), we can use that in the same
places as Perl's malloced_size(), except that we need to be careful of
any PERL_TRACK_MEMPOOL manipulations in force. Wrap both as
Perl_safesysmalloc_size(), to give a consistent name and interface.

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