net: move the ct helper function to nf_conntrack_helper for ovs and tc

net: move the ct helper function to nf_conntrack_helper for ovs and tc

Move ovs_ct_helper from openvswitch to nf_conntrack_helper and rename
as nf_ct_helper so that it can be used in TC act_ct in the next patch.
Note that it also adds the checks for the family and proto, as in TC
act_ct, the packets with correct family and proto are not guaranteed.

Acked-by: Marcelo Ricardo Leitner <marcelo.leitner@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Xin Long <lucien.xin@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>