[LCG] Add the concept of a "dead" node and use it to avoid a complex

[LCG] Add the concept of a "dead" node and use it to avoid a complex
walk over the parent set.

When removing a single function from the call graph, we previously would
walk the entire RefSCC's parent set and then walk every outgoing edge
just to find the ones to remove. In addition to this being quite high
complexity in theory, it is also the last fundamental use of the parent
sets.

With this change, when we remove a function we transform the node
containing it to be recognizably "dead" and then teach the edge
iterators to recognize edges to such nodes and skip them the same way
they skip null edges.

We can't move fully to using "dead" nodes -- when disconnecting two live
nodes we need to null out the edge. But the complexity this adds to the
edge sequence isn't too bad and the simplification of lazily handling
this seems like a significant win.

llvm-svn: 310169