d3d12: Swap the remainder of state tracking to new method

d3d12: Swap the remainder of state tracking to new method

Uses a set of d3d12_bo on the context to track which bos are pending
a transition instead of an intrusive linked list, since the bo may
need to be pending on multiple contexts at once.

Reviewed-by: Bill Kristiansen <billkris@microsoft.com>
Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/mesa/mesa/-/merge_requests/17688>