selftests/bpf: Fix a CI failure caused by vsock write

selftests/bpf: Fix a CI failure caused by vsock write

While commit 90f0074cd9f9 ("selftests/bpf: fix a CI failure caused by vsock sockmap test")
fixes a receive failure of vsock sockmap test, there is still a write failure:

Error: #211/79 sockmap_listen/sockmap VSOCK test_vsock_redir
Error: #211/79 sockmap_listen/sockmap VSOCK test_vsock_redir
  ./test_progs:vsock_unix_redir_connectible:1501: egress: write: Transport endpoint is not connected
  vsock_unix_redir_connectible:FAIL:1501
  ./test_progs:vsock_unix_redir_connectible:1501: ingress: write: Transport endpoint is not connected
  vsock_unix_redir_connectible:FAIL:1501
  ./test_progs:vsock_unix_redir_connectible:1501: egress: write: Transport endpoint is not connected
  vsock_unix_redir_connectible:FAIL:1501

The reason is that the vsock connection in the test is set to ESTABLISHED state
by function virtio_transport_recv_pkt, which is executed in a workqueue thread,
so when the user space test thread runs before the workqueue thread, this
problem occurs.

To fix it, before writing the connection, wait for it to be connected.

Fixes: d61bd8c1fd02 ("selftests/bpf: add a test case for vsock sockmap")
Signed-off-by: Xu Kuohai <xukuohai@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20230901031037.3314007-1-xukuohai@huaweicloud.com