Update protobuf to 3.13.1 (#62571)

Update protobuf to 3.13.1 (#62571)

Summary:
Update bazel to 4.10.0

Update ASAN_SYMBOLIZER_PATH to llvm-7
Suppress `vptr` ubsan violations in `test_jit`
Fix ProtoBuf patching for ONNX which caused Windows builds to crash while attempting to free `std::string` allocated on stack

Fixes https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/62569

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/62571

Reviewed By: walterddr

Differential Revision: D30048685

Pulled By: malfet

fbshipit-source-id: 6462c1bef9c42318551d2cf906bbab41e1d4e1cd