libbpf: fix offsetof() and container_of() to work with CO-RE

libbpf: fix offsetof() and container_of() to work with CO-RE

It seems like __builtin_offset() doesn't preserve CO-RE field
relocations properly. So if offsetof() macro is defined through
__builtin_offset(), CO-RE-enabled BPF code using container_of() will be
subtly and silently broken.

To avoid this problem, redefine offsetof() and container_of() in the
form that works with CO-RE relocations more reliably.

Fixes: 5fbc220862fc ("tools/libpf: Add offsetof/container_of macro in bpf_helpers.h")
Reported-by: Lennart Poettering <lennart@poettering.net>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Yonghong Song <yhs@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230509065502.2306180-1-andrii@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>