wifi: mac80211: avoid lockdep checking when removing deflink

wifi: mac80211: avoid lockdep checking when removing deflink

struct sta_info may be removed without holding sta_mtx if it has not
yet been inserted. To support this, only assert that the lock is held
for links other than the deflink.

This fixes lockdep issues that may be triggered in error cases.

Signed-off-by: Benjamin Berg <benjamin.berg@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Gregory Greenman <gregory.greenman@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230619161906.cdd81377dea0.If5a6734b4b85608a2275a09b4f99b5564d82997f@changeid
Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>