a lot of patches - also my work on moving the IO stuff in e_fm to a slave

a lot of patches - also my work on moving the IO stuff in e_fm to a slave
process to stop e from ever "locking up". this unfortunately breaks the other
source stuff and thus breaks the app editor config dialogs and anything using
fm2 for .desktop stuff from the e applications/all repo. i am doing this as i
expect this to go away with efreet anyway so not too much of an issue. not
all fm operatiosn work currently - note. so beware. it can view files though :)

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