[memcpyopt] Teach memcpyopt to optimize across basic blocks
This teaches memcpyopt to make a non-local memdep query when a local query
indicates that the dependency is non-local. This notably allows it to
eliminate many more llvm.memcpy calls in common Rust code, often by 20-30%.
This is r319482 and r319483, along with fixes for PR35519: fix the
optimization that merges stores into memsets to preserve cached memdep
info, and fix memdep's non-local caching strategy to not assume that larger
queries are always more conservative than smaller ones.
Fixes PR28958 and PR35519.
Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D40802
llvm-svn: 321138