Use non-legacy constructors for tensor deserialization. (#18750)

Use non-legacy constructors for tensor deserialization. (#18750)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/18750
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Stack from [ghstack](https://github.com/ezyang/ghstack):
* #18751 Disallow changing the device of a tensor via set_.
* **#18750 Use non-legacy constructors for tensor deserialization.**
* #18749 Add device and dtype to storage.

Deserialization currently uses legacy constructors.  This is bad because we need to maintain them, but there is a more immediate problem:
1) We are trying to implement device caching on TensorImpl to get rid of a virtual dispatch
2) This doesn't work if one is able to change the device of a Tensor underlying a Variable.
3) Deserialization does 2)

So the plan is to change deserialization, then enforce that we don't change the device out from underneath a Variable.

Differential Revision: D14729513

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