RDMA/rxe: Revert changes from irqsave to bh locks

RDMA/rxe: Revert changes from irqsave to bh locks

A previous patch replaced all irqsave locks in rxe with bh locks.  This
ran into problems because rdmacm has a bad habit of calling rdma verbs
APIs while disabling irqs. This is not allowed during spin_unlock_bh()
causing programs that use rdmacm to fail.  This patch reverts the changes
to locks that had this problem or got dragged into the same mess. After
this patch blktests/check -q srp now runs correctly.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220215194448.44369-1-rpearsonhpe@gmail.com
Fixes: 21adfa7a3c4e ("RDMA/rxe: Replace irqsave locks with bh locks")
Reported-by: Guoqing Jiang <guoqing.jiang@linux.dev>
Reported-by: Bart Van Assche <bvanassche@acm.org>
Signed-off-by: Bob Pearson <rpearsonhpe@gmail.com>
Tested-by: Bart Van Assche <bvanassche@acm.org>
Acked-by: Zhu Yanjun <zyjzyj2000@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>