Use local key/leaf definition instead of bpf_tunnel_key

Use local key/leaf definition instead of bpf_tunnel_key

Even after fixing the nested union issue in the preceding commits, this
example was failing. The reason was that the kernel was filling in all
bits of the bpf_tunnel_key, which in recent kernels includes non-zero
fields such as ttl. That non-zero field would break the lookup in the
tunkey2if table, which was populated assuming all extra bytes would be
zero.

Fix it by defining a simpler key structure, and copy the required fields
out from the local variable.

Fixes: #510