tls: fix premature connection termination

tls: fix premature connection termination

Destroying the TLS session implies destroying the underlying socket but
before this commit, that was done with net.Socket#destroy() rather than
net.Socket#destroySoon().  The former closes the connection right away,
even when there is still data to write.  In other words, sometimes the
final TLS record got truncated.

Fixes #6107.