[GC] Loosen ordering on statepoint reloads to allow CSE

[GC] Loosen ordering on statepoint reloads to allow CSE

We just removed a broken duplicate elimination algorithm in D75964, and after landed that it occurred to me that duplicate elimination is simply CSE. SelectionDAG has a build in CSE, so why wasn't that triggering? Well, it turns out we were overly conservative in the memory states for our reloads and CSE (rightly) considers the incoming memory state for a load part of the identity of the load.

By loosening the chain and allowing reordering, we also allow CSE. As shown in the test case, doing iterative CSE as we go is enough to eliminate duplicate stores in later statepoints as well. We key our (block local) slot map by SDValue, so commoning a previous pair of loads at construction time means we also common following stores.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D76013