builds: Fix and clean up MSVC DLL builds

builds: Fix and clean up MSVC DLL builds

Instead of passing a CFLAG/CXXFLAG to define HB_EXTERN, define it
directly in src/hb.hh as __declspec(dllexport) extern when we are
building HarfBuzz as DLLs on Visual Studio.  Define HB_INTERNAL
as nothing without defining HB_NO_VISIBILITY when building HarfBuzz as
DLLs to avoid linker errors on Visual Studio builds.

Also "install" harfbuzz-subset.dll into $(PREFIX)\bin as the
hb-subset utility will depend on that DLL at runtime, when HarfBuzz is
built as DLLs.  Since it consists of private APIs that are subject to
change, we do not install its headers nor .lib file.