configure: Include gl2ext.h or glext.h under GLES

configure: Include gl2ext.h or glext.h under GLES

Under big GL, glext.h is included automatically by gl.h. However under
GLES this doesn't appear to happen so it has to be included explicitly
to get the defines for extensions. This patch changes the
clutter_gl_header to be called cogl_gl_headers and it can now take a
space seperated list of multiple headers. This is then later converted
to a list of #include lines which ends up cogl-defines.h. The gles2
and gles1 backends now add their respective ext header to this list.