htl: Fix cleaning the reply port

htl: Fix cleaning the reply port

If any RPC fails, the reply port will already be deallocated.
__pthread_thread_terminate thus has to defer taking its name until the very last
__thread_terminate_release which doesn't reply a message.  But then we
have to read from the pthread structure.

This introduces __pthread_dealloc_finish() which does the recording of
the thread termination, so the slot can be reused really only just before
the __thread_terminate_release call. Only the real thread can set it, so
let's decouple this from the pthread_state by just removing the
PTHREAD_TERMINATED state and add a terminated field.