Distinguish between two flavours of mutex

Distinguish between two flavours of mutex

dbus-threads.h warns that recursive pthreads mutexes are not compatible
with our expectations for condition variables. However, the only two
condition variables we actually use only have their corresponding
mutexes locked briefly (and we don't call out to user code from there),
so the mutexes don't need to be recursive anyway. That's just as well,
because it turns out our implementation of recursive mutexes on
pthreads is broken!

The goal here is to be able to distinguish between "cmutexes" (mutexes
compatible with a condition variable) and "rmutexes" (mutexes which
are recursive if possible, to avoid deadlocking if we hold them while
calling user code).

This is complicated by the fact that callers are not guaranteed to have
provided us with both versions of mutexes, so we might have to implement
one by using the other (in particular, DBusRMutex *aims to be*
recursive, it is not *guaranteed to be* recursive).

Bug: https://bugs.freedesktop.org/show_bug.cgi?id=43744
Signed-off-by: Simon McVittie <simon.mcvittie@collabora.co.uk>
Reviewed-by: Thiago Macieira <thiago@kde.org>