Update explicit_ci_jobs to work with GHA (#64598)

Update explicit_ci_jobs to work with GHA (#64598)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/64598

This adds a filter option rather than an all-or-nothing so it's easier to iterate on a specific job.

```bash
python tools/testing/explicit_ci_jobs.py --filter-gha '*generated-linux-*gcc5.4*'
```

See #64600 for an example usage

NB: If you regenerate the worfklows you will need to re-run that command to re-delete everything.

Test Plan: Imported from OSS

Reviewed By: janeyx99

Differential Revision: D30788850

Pulled By: driazati

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