[NativeAOT] Use QueueUserAPC2 in GC suspension, if available. (#80087)

[NativeAOT] Use QueueUserAPC2 in GC suspension, if available. (#80087)

* QueueUserAPC2

* fixes, do not stack APCs

* adjust for newer SDK

* force a failure - to see if lab machines have support for this

* cleanup some includes

* FEATURE_SUSPEND_APC2

* remove intentional failure

* one more case of FEATURE_SUSPEND_APC2

* comment

* fail if QUEUE_USER_APC_CALLBACK_DATA_CONTEXT supported

* Apply suggestions from code review

Co-authored-by: Jan Kotas <jkotas@microsoft.com>
* FEATURE_SUSPEND_APC2 -> FEATURE_SPECIAL_USER_MODE_APC

* throw - to make sure this fails on Release builds

* un-break the feature

* fix for a stress issue.

* check for a failure to queue an APC.

* use the same activation optimization on Unix

* PR feedback

* unmark ActivationPending if APC failed to queue.

* a bit more robust against sharing the signal with something else.

* initialize QueueUserAPC2 on demand

* Check for STATUS_INVALID_PARAMETER

* print the error

* STATUS_INVALID_PARAMETER -> ERROR_INVALID_PARAMETER

Co-authored-by: Jan Kotas <jkotas@microsoft.com>