bz2: fix some refcount mistakes and do some cleaning up

bz2: fix some refcount mistakes and do some cleaning up

No need to unref buffers if pad_push returns something non-FLOW_OK.
In fact, this will cause assertions or crashes. However, we do need
to unref the input buffer whenever we don't pass it downstream. Also,
a non-OK flow return is not an error, so don't post error messages on
the bus - the pipeline may just be shutting down. Miscellaneous other
clean-ups and crack removal. Plenty of work left for those who feel
like it.