sink, source: Call set_mute() from mute_changed()

sink, source: Call set_mute() from mute_changed()

This refactoring reduces duplication, as mute_changed() used to do the
same things as set_mute(). Other benefits are improved logging
(set_mute() logs the mute change, mute_changed() used to not do that)
and the soft mute state is kept up to date, because set_mute() sends
the SET_MUTE message to the IO thread.

The set_mute_in_progress flag is an extra precaution for preventing
recursion in case a sink/source implementation's set_mute() callback
causes mute_changed() to be called. Currently there are no such
implementations, but I think that would be a valid thing to do, so
some day there might be such implementation.

Change-Id: I33c81f4034001f777c4533c2c63eada67548c683
Signed-off-by: Jaska Uimonen <jaska.uimonen@intel.com>