[mlir] ODS: support TableGen dag objects to specify OpBuilder parameters

[mlir] ODS: support TableGen dag objects to specify OpBuilder parameters

Historically, custom builder specification in OpBuilder has been accepting the
formal parameter list for the builder method as a raw string containing C++.
While this worked well to connect the signature and the body, this became
problematic when ODS needs to manipulate the parameter list, e.g. to inject
OpBuilder or to trim default values when generating the definition. This has
also become inconsistent with other method declarations, in particular in
interface definitions.

Introduce the possibility to define OpBuilder formal parameters using a
TableGen dag similarly to other methods. Additionally, introduce a mechanism to
declare parameters with default values using an additional class. This
mechanism can be reused in other methods. The string-based builder signature
declaration is deprecated and will be removed after a transition period.

Reviewed By: jpienaar

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D89470