Fix flaky store timeout test (#19114)

Fix flaky store timeout test (#19114)

Summary:
~Sometimes, `init_process_group()`, `store.get()`, and `destory_process_group()` can take more than a few seconds. Hence, removing thread join timeout.~

The error was due to `Address already in use` when starting TPC backend. The solution is to catch the error and report it to the `retry_on_address_already_in_use_error` decorator.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/19114

Reviewed By: ezyang

Differential Revision: D14872680

Pulled By: mrshenli

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