core: delay bus name synchronization after reload/reexec into a later event loop...

core: delay bus name synchronization after reload/reexec into a later event loop iteration

Previously, we'd synchronize bus names immediately when we succeeded
connecting to the bus, potentially even before coldplugging the units.
This was problematic, as synchronizing bus names meant invoking the
per-unit name change handler function which might change the unit's
state — which will result in consistency when done before we coldplug
things.

With this change we instead enqueue a job for the event loop to resync
the names in a later loop iteration, i.e. at a point where we know
coldplugging has finished.