libceph: move ceph_con_send() closed check under the con mutex

libceph: move ceph_con_send() closed check under the con mutex

(cherry picked from commit a59b55a602b6c741052d79c1e3643f8440cddd27)

Take the con mutex before checking whether the connection is closed to
avoid racing with someone else closing it.

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>