Make all uses of QBasicAtomicInt and Pointer use load() and store()

Make all uses of QBasicAtomicInt and Pointer use load() and store()

Most of these changes are search-and-replace of d->ref ==, d->ref !=
and d->ref =.

The QBasicAtomicPointer in QObjectPrivate::Connection didn't need to
be basic, so I made it QAtomicPointer.

Change-Id: Ie3271abd1728af599f9ab17c6f4868e475f17bb6
Reviewed-on: http://codereview.qt-project.org/5030
Reviewed-by: Qt Sanity Bot <qt_sanity_bot@ovi.com>
Reviewed-by: Bradley T. Hughes <bradley.hughes@nokia.com>
Reviewed-by: Lars Knoll <lars.knoll@nokia.com>