xdg-shell: Turn the resizing heuristics into an explicit state

xdg-shell: Turn the resizing heuristics into an explicit state

Currently, there's a race condition. When resizing from the left, and
a client attaches a buffer after the resize ends, you suddenly see the
buffer jump to the right, because the resize ended while multiple
attaches were in-flight. Making resize a state can fix this, as the
server can now know exactly when the resize ended, and whether a commit
was before or after that place.

We don't implement the correct tracking in this commit; that's left as
an exercise to the reader.

Additionally, clients like terminals might want to display resize popups
to display the number of cells when in a resize. They can use the hint
here to figure out whether they are resizing.