ADT: Stop peeking inside AlignedCharArrayUnion, NFC

ADT: Stop peeking inside AlignedCharArrayUnion, NFC

Update all the users of `AlignedCharArrayUnion` to stop peeking inside
(to look at `buffer`) so that a follow-up patch can replace it with an
alias to `std::aligned_union_t`.

This was reviewed as part of https://reviews.llvm.org/D92512, but I'm
splitting this bit out to commit first to reduce churn in case the
change to `AlignedCharArrayUnion` needs to be reverted for some
unexpected reason.