rtspconnection: protect cancellable by a mutex

rtspconnection: protect cancellable by a mutex

It is entirely possible for the cancellable to be cancelled (and freed)
in gst_rtsp_connection_flush() while there may be an ongoing read/write
operation.

Nothing prevents gst_rtsp_connection_flush() from waiting for the
outstanding read/writes.

This could lead to a crash like (where cancellable has been freed
within gst_rtsp_connection_flush()):

 #0  0x00007ffff4351096 in g_output_stream_writev (stream=stream@entry=0x7fff30002950, vectors=vectors@entry=0x7ffe2c6afa80, n_vectors=n_vectors@entry=3, bytes_written=bytes_written@entry=0x7ffe2c6af950,  cancellable=cancellable@entry=0x7fff300288a0, error=error@entry=0x7ffe2c6af958) at ../subprojects/glib/gio/goutputstream.c:377
 #1  0x00007ffff44b2c38 in writev_bytes (stream=0x7fff30002950, vectors=vectors@entry=0x7ffe2c6afa80, n_vectors=n_vectors@entry=3, bytes_written=bytes_written@entry=0x7ffe2c6afb90, block=block@entry=1, cancellable=0x7fff300288a0) at ../subprojects/gst-plugins-base/gst-libs/gst/rtsp/gstrtspconnection.c:1320
 #2  0x00007ffff44b583e in gst_rtsp_connection_send_messages_usec (conn=0x7fff30001370, messages=messages@entry=0x7ffe2c6afcc0, n_messages=n_messages@entry=1, timeout=timeout@entry=3000000) at ../subprojects/gst-plugins-base/gst-libs/gst/rtsp/gstrtspconnection.c:2056
 #3  0x00007ffff44d2669 in gst_rtsp_client_sink_connection_send_messages (sink=0x7fffac0192c0, timeout=3000000, n_messages=1, messages=0x7ffe2c6afcc0, conninfo=0x7fffac019610) at ../subprojects/gst-rtsp-server/gst/rtsp-sink/gstrtspclientsink.c:1929
 #4  gst_rtsp_client_sink_try_send (sink=sink@entry=0x7fffac0192c0, conninfo=conninfo@entry=0x7fffac019610, requests=requests@entry=0x7ffe2c6afcc0, n_requests=n_requests@entry=1, response=response@entry=0x0, code=code@entry=0x0) at ../subprojects/gst-rtsp-server/gst/rtsp-sink/gstrtspclientsink.c:2845
 #5  0x00007ffff44d3077 in do_send_data (buffer=0x7fff38075c60, channel=<optimized out>, context=0x7fffac042640) at ../subprojects/gst-rtsp-server/gst/rtsp-sink/gstrtspclientsink.c:3896
 #6  0x00007ffff4281cc6 in gst_rtsp_stream_transport_send_rtp (trans=trans@entry=0x7fff20061f80, buffer=<optimized out>) at ../subprojects/gst-rtsp-server/gst/rtsp-server/rtsp-stream-transport.c:632
 #7  0x00007ffff4278e9b in push_data (stream=0x7fff40019bf0, is_rtp=<optimized out>, buffer_list=0x0, buffer=<optimized out>, trans=0x7fff20061f80) at ../subprojects/gst-rtsp-server/gst/rtsp-server/rtsp-stream.c:2586
 #8  check_transport_backlog (stream=0x7fff40019bf0, trans=0x7fff20061f80) at ../subprojects/gst-rtsp-server/gst/rtsp-server/rtsp-stream.c:2645
 #9  0x00007ffff42793b3 in send_tcp_message (idx=<optimized out>, stream=0x7fff40019bf0) at ../subprojects/gst-rtsp-server/gst/rtsp-server/rtsp-stream.c:2741
 #10 send_func (stream=0x7fff40019bf0) at ../subprojects/gst-rtsp-server/gst/rtsp-server/rtsp-stream.c:2776
 #11 0x00007ffff7d59fad in g_thread_proxy (data=0x7fffbc062920) at ../subprojects/glib/glib/gthread.c:827
 #12 0x00007ffff7a8ce2d in start_thread () from /lib64/libc.so.6
 #13 0x00007ffff7b12620 in clone3 () from /lib64/libc.so.6

Fix by adding a cancellable lock and returning an extra reference used
across all read/write operations.  gst_rtsp_connection_flush() can free
the in-use cancellable and it will no longer affect any in progress
read/write.

Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/gstreamer/gstreamer/-/merge_requests/2799>