[libc++] Implement P0154R1 (Hardware inference size)

[libc++] Implement P0154R1 (Hardware inference size)

`__GCC_CONSTRUCTIVE_SIZE` and `__GCC_DESTRUCTIVE_SIZE` are available since GCC 12. I'm assuming clang will also implement these for compatability with libstdc++.

Reviewed By: ldionne, #libc

Spies: h-vetinari, libcxx-commits, arichardson

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D122276