Resolve errors in perfkernel for Windows (#16031)

Resolve errors in perfkernel for Windows (#16031)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/16031

1. MSVC only has _mm_prefetch(const char*, int). Fixed in both python codegen and C++ files.
2. uint32_t in "cvtsh_ss_bugfix.h" requires "#include <cstdint>".
3. Some files use gflags headers. Add dependency via c10.
4. Isolate arch flags with interface library and private compile options.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/15753

Reviewed By: dskhudia

Differential Revision: D13636233

Pulled By: jspark1105

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