Fix sparse mm for ROCm (#18985)

Fix sparse mm for ROCm (#18985)

Summary:
* Annotate also two pass reduction with launch bounds
* ifdef some shortcomings of ROCm w.r.t. short-circuit returns - internal tickets filed
* while there, plug memory leak by destroying matrix descriptor after the sparse call (applicable to cuSPARSE)
* while there, fix types for cusparseXcoo2csr as per cuSPARSE documentation
* enable test_dsmm in test_sparse which now passes
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/18985

Differential Revision: D14822009

Pulled By: bddppq

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