zink: track gfx/compute descriptor barrier info

zink: track gfx/compute descriptor barrier info

update_barriers has steadily grown more and more complex when the original
idea was for it to be a small function to handle deferred jit barriers and
simplify sync in patterns like bind_ubo -> draw -> buffer_subdata -> draw

instead, track the pending barrier info at bind time so that the stages and
access are already updated by the time draw/compute are reached

Reviewed-by: Dave Airlie <airlied@redhat.com>
Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/mesa/mesa/-/merge_requests/17192>