libbpf: Add helper macro to clear opts structs

libbpf: Add helper macro to clear opts structs

Add a small and generic LIBBPF_OPTS_RESET() helper macros which clears an
opts structure and reinitializes its .sz member to place the structure
size. Additionally, the user can pass option-specific data to reinitialize
via varargs.

I found this very useful when developing selftests, but it is also generic
enough as a macro next to the existing LIBBPF_OPTS() which hides the .sz
initialization, too.

Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230719140858.13224-6-daniel@iogearbox.net
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>