perf parse-events: Remove ABORT_ON

perf parse-events: Remove ABORT_ON

Prefer informative messages rather than none with ABORT_ON. Document
one failure mode and add an error message for another.

Signed-off-by: Ian Rogers <irogers@google.com>
Cc: Adrian Hunter <adrian.hunter@intel.com>
Cc: Alexander Shishkin <alexander.shishkin@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Athira Rajeev <atrajeev@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Cc: Ingo Molnar <mingo@redhat.com>
Cc: Jiri Olsa <jolsa@kernel.org>
Cc: Kan Liang <kan.liang@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Mark Rutland <mark.rutland@arm.com>
Cc: Namhyung Kim <namhyung@kernel.org>
Cc: Peter Zijlstra <peterz@infradead.org>
Cc: bpf@vger.kernel.org
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230627181030.95608-14-irogers@google.com
Signed-off-by: Arnaldo Carvalho de Melo <acme@redhat.com>